Making pleasing sounds, shapes, textures and that sort of thing is easy.
Being “well behaved” about doing so requires some effort, but isn’t that difficult to do.
Feeling the need to make other folks “feel safe” can be compared to being like a household pet. There are benefits to be derived from investing energy in that direction, but at a considerable personal cost.
The gift of life is valuable. Knowing what to do with such a gift is even more impressive.
Moments pass and eventually a person sometimes has the benefit of hindsight. Time, energy and effort are best spent with attitude.